Take the wind out of your sails

Meaning

This idiom describes deflating someone’s confidence, enthusiasm, or momentum, as if removing the wind that powers a ship’s sails, leaving it stalled. It conveys a sudden setback or discouragement, often used in personal, competitive, or professional contexts to depict loss of drive. The phrase carries a tone of disappointment, sabotage, or reality-check, reflecting cultural values of resilience and the human tendency to be derailed by criticism. Its nautical imagery evokes a halted journey, resonating in scenarios like arguments or failures. The idiom captures emotional deflation, making it a vivid metaphor for losing steam.

Origin

The phrase originated in 19th-century Britain, tied to naval warfare where ships stole wind from rivals’ sails to slow them, as noted in maritime logs. Its metaphorical use emerged in the 1830s, with *The Times* (1840s) using it for political setbacks. The idiom gained traction in the late 19th century, amplified by literature, notably in Herman Melville’s *Moby-Dick* (1851). Its spread was boosted by 20th-century media, especially in sports and politics, enduring in English-speaking cultures for its vivid imagery and relevance to discouragement.

Variants (3)
Take the wind out of his sails
Wind out of your sails
Took the wind out of your sails
Usage Examples (5)
Her harsh critique took the wind out of his sails.
Wind out of your sails, the rejection crushed her confidence.
Took the wind out of their sails, the bad review halted the project.
Take the wind out of his sails, and he’ll rethink that arrogant plan.
The sudden loss took the wind out of the team’s sails.